I absolutely hate being the listening ear, to a friend who is loving during hurt. Simply for the reason, that I know they are undeserving and deserve better. I never cast judgement during this type of thing, because love can be so uncontrollable that we can't catch ourselves before we fall. Uugh! That is the stupid thing about love, it is so hard to control. Most of our heart ache is self-induced. Meaning, if we walk away at the first sign of hurt, infidelity, and pain, we will save ourselves a many of sleepless nights. But let's face it, that's easier said than done. When we love, we love, and we have the ability to tell ourselves that it is going to get better in time, only to face the reality that it doesn't. Loving during hurt consists of you doing your all and all to please and do whatever to make someone happy. The someone who fails to return the same to you.